Monday, October 27, 2014

Poetry Hike in Sedona

Great Idea:  A Poetry Hike!
I want to get away from my desk and off the paved roads!  I live in Sedona and haven’t been making use of the gorgeous outdoor trails for hiking…. So when I saw that OLLI (Osher Lifelong Learning Institute) was offering, among its many intriguing adult classes, a four-week session of “Poetry Hikes” I signed up!  We gathered at the Yavapai campus at noon on this warm, clear October day.  I had a hat, sunscreen, plus sunblock scarf and shirt, light slacks, ankle-supporting hiking shoes, water, an apple, and a sense of excitement to be out on my day off having fun! 

Our leader Gary organized us into carpool groups, and we set off for Sugarloaf parking lot in the Coffee Pot hiking area.  We set off in silence for about a mile, among junipers, manzanita trees, cactus and agave plants, and the red sandstone formations on every side against a deep blue sky. 




























We arrived at a shady spot where we gathered, sat down and smiled at each other for no reason other than the sheer beauty and pleasure of being in this group of men and women enjoying the outdoors together.
Marilee took over, introducing us to the poetry of Sharon Olds. 



I felt that Marilee cracked open the shell of the poems and showed us the liquid aliveness inside.  People opened up as well, commenting on the imagery of love, intimacy, disappointment, loss, and mourning in the sweep of her poems over three decades.










As we turned to follow the trail back I realized that I was walking behind the leader, placing my footsteps in the outlines of his footsteps… and suddenly I was back as a ten and twelve year old spending summers in a Kinderheim, like a sleep-away camp, in Gstaad, Switzerland. The teachers took us children out for hikes ver often, and we followed in single file behind our leader.  I kept my eyes on the boots of the guide right in front of me, and placed my small footprints within the larger footprints of the adult ahead of me.  The path was often wet, mossy, and the surroundings very green, as we forded streams, and crossed meadows with the sound of cows’ bells tinkling. 




STEP
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I guess that is where I got into the habit of looking down as I walked, and only looking up when we paused for a drink, or to take in the view and appreciate the vista of mountains, valleys and streams.   Through the years, my mother often told me in a park, at the beach, or walking down the street, “Look UP!”  I guess I had been doing a “walking meditation” all along!


So… back to the trail in Sedona.




Suddenly I remembered with great fondness the many hikes my husband Itzhak and I took when our children Tali and Amir were little.  We’d go to the mountains in his camper, already a great adventure, and then line up:  Abba (Hebrew for Daddy) first, then Ima (Mommy), then the children.  And Itzhak would start a chant that we repeated in singsong… “Heidy heidy heidy ho…” (repeat!), “Heidy heidy heidy ho” (repeat); “Ho Ho Ho Ho” (repeat), “Heidy hey” (repeat), “Heidy ho” (repeat, “Heidy diddly heidy hey” (repeat and start all over for miles)!

And when we hiked, I again, as an adult, looked at the sturdy calves of my husband up ahead, and stayed in the footprint path he created. 

I did quite a bit of time travel on that one mile return walk! 
Now looking forward to next week’s adventure!


Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Exciting and humbling award

http://www.sedona.biz/news-from-sedona/sedona-community-foundation-announces-2014-spirit-of-sedona-award-winners/ 

Here is a link to a description of the upcoming Sedona Community Foundation Awards. I have been honored with the Philanthropist of the Year Award.  I feel that choosing me a the winner is a symbol of everyone's capacity to do good in the community, and to encourage others to offer their passion and talents to groups that work for the environment, the hungry, the needy; to organizations that enhance education, arts, safety, quality of life for the elderly, etc.

Compared to others who have been honored with the Philanthropist of the Year Award, I have very modest means... so I understand this award as a break-through decision for the local awards committee, empowering many more people to feel that their efforts are worthy, needed, important, effective.

I am truly humbled by this honor.

I'll post something after the awards ceremony that will take place on November 16. 

Rabbi Alicia Magal

Monday, October 6, 2014

Rabbi's Words on CONNECTION - Yom Kippur 5775 (2014)

Rabbi Alicia Magal
Jewish Community of Sedona and the Verde Valley
2014 - 5775
Kol Nidre  Friday, October 3, 2014
– untying knots, releasing complications, renewing ties, far away connections like with Israel.
 
Rabbi Alicia Magal before Yom Kippur services.
Notice the Angel in her shadow!!

During these High Holy Days I am presenting my theme of CONNECTION – KESHER in Hebrew. On Rosh Hashanah I spoke of sailor knots, and of knitting, of how to connect one little loop or stitch to another to create something useful.  I talked about the connections we make with close family and friends. Tonight and tomorrow I want to speak of larger connections, beyond our individual small circles.

It is vital to look beyond our own immediate lives here, and seek more knowledge about our wider connections – with Jewish communities around the world, and a sense of close connection with Israel, her people and her future. The world order is changing in ways we never experienced before.

One way to connect with our Jewish tradition to help us be informed and strong is through the Kesher Study Progam I am instituting this coming year.  I hope you will sign up for the Chai Mitzvah course that meets once a month beginning in November and will continue through June.  Each participant will be encouraged to follow their own areas of interest related to the study topics presented at each session.
(Just for reference… don’t read out loud)
Study materials will include those three pillars of existence we always sing about Torah, Avodah, Gemilut Hasadim:
]a) learning/knowledge,                      
b) ritual/spirituality, and
 c) social action/helping others.
  the benefits are: a) deepened friendships with the other participants, b) expanded rewards from being Jewish, c) seeing links between Judaism and eight other aspects of a gratifying life, and d) having a set of enjoyable and meaningful monthly experiences.   At the end we will hold a Chai Mitzvah ceremony/party to celebrate your new stage of Jewish development.  There is an $18 fee for materials for members.
First meeting will be on Tuesday, November 4th from 3:00 - 5:00 p.m. 
Nov. 4:  Orientation
Dec. 9:   Tzedakah
Jan. 6:    Interpersonal Relationships
Feb. 3:   Mindfulness
Mar. 3:  Enriching the Seder
Apr. 7:   Days of Remembrance 
May 5:   Gratitude
June 2:  Judaism and the Environment

Flyers are on the table and the information is in our newsletter.
---In addition, for those who want an even deeper connection with tradition and text, I’ll be teaching a class on the 3rd Tuesday of those same months for those who wish to have an adult Bar or Bat Mitzvah, learn to chant trop for Torah, Haftarah, and if you know those, then trop melody for High Holy days, Purim Megillah, or Lamentations.  I will include selections from Psalms, Prophets, and Talmud according to the level of the group.

I feel so very connected to each of you, and my wish is to have an even stronger connection forged over this coming year – through personal meetings, time at services and afterwards, in classes,
Social Action projects, committee meetings, visiting members of the community who are ill, visiting at your home, hiking on the trail, at knitting group, organizing Mitzvah Day in May, wherever your interest and need show up. If you need a mezuzah put up at your home, call me to do a home dedication.  If you have a Simcha, let’s celebrate at a Shabbat service and plan an Oneg. If, God forbid, you have a crisis or loss, let me help you grieve, mourn, and celebrate the life of the loved one with the comfort offered by Jewish tradition.

Make connections to the wider community through local interfaith programs such as the Interfaith Thanksgiving and Mitzvah Day; stay informed about all the amazing achievements of Israel and speak up about unfair and incorrect press reports and condemnation.  Travel to Israel if you can, and see the marvels for yourself. I will invite our member Dan Gordon, who still serves as an army spokesman for the IDF and who was in Israel at the Gaza border through Operation Defensive Edge, to speak to us in the coming weeks about the truth and distortions reported about Israel’s situation. He is speaking on Yom Kippur at the Performing Arts synagogue in Los Angeles about his experiences in the recent war.

While we cannot know what is written about “Who shall Live and Who shall Die…” we can write in our own “book of living fully” each day, reaching out, connecting to others and feeling that our lives are worthwhile. Each of us is unique and has a special job while we walk this earth.

On these days of judgment and repentance, let us wipe the slate clean, start over again, and face the new year with confidence, joy, and hope.

L’shanah Tovah… May you be written and sealed in the Book of Life in the coming year.
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 Rabbi Alicia Magal  
JCSVV 2014 - 5775
          Yom Kippur Day, Saturday, October 4, 2014
Standing before God – the highest connection, and also the deepest, reconnecting with inner soul. Wrap it all up from the other drashot and bring it to a deep connection with soul, which is also the highest connection with God!

Today is Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement, the Day of At-One-Ment… as we stand before our God.  We are connected, as we say at each prayer service, when we sing out the Shema – Hear O Israel, God is One, and we are all connected to God.

There are moments when we are moved to tears… why is that?  Words are simply not enough to hold the emotion bubbling up and it spills over …. Tears of joy and gratitude, tears of sorrow…. Just beyond logical, limited words. 

Maybe that is why poetry is so powerful, it cuts right through to the heart of feeling.  We have created - with the help of Ann Metlay, at our Elul workshop last month - a series of poems related to the themes of the High Holy Days, and hung them, with the help of Helen King, in our meditation garden behind the synagogue, at the corner of Meadowlark and 179.  You are invited to wander through there after the morning services and throughout the afternoon, before and after the Discussion, and before the Afternoon, Yizkor, and Neilah services resume later today.  Maybe you will be touched in a new way about some of the ideas of forgiveness, not carrying a grudge, seeing the best in others, and judging them with mercy in the way we each hope to be judged by God.


In the play put on by our members this past Sunday, The Gates Are Closing, we could hear the thoughts of the characters as they grappled with their connections with their family, with society, with God. If we could share those moments of deepest, most honest thought, today, what would we learn about each other?  What are the yearnings of your hearts?

Mine are to be more present, more attuned to the vital issues touching our congregants and our community.  And to balance that with being aware of my own needs for health and renewal as a person, wife, daughter, mother, and soon, grandmother, God willing.  Our daughter is pregnant and due to give birth in late January or early February.  How do I and Itzhak become good grandparents, helpful, but not meddling, offering our life experience, but leaving the new parents a sense of their own discovery, and not commenting on what we perceive as mistakes? 

I ask of you to be more connected, more welcoming and considerate of each other, and to offer rides, visit the sick, and do what you can and a bit beyond what you thought you could, for this mishpacha. 
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I had a dream this past week that I was chanting the very Torah portion in the melody of the High Holy Days that I will be chanting this morning
Atem Nitzavim Hayom Kulchem… You are all standing here today, to receive the covenant, you and all the Children of Israel, and all the generations to come, yet unborn. , and then… in  my dream the chanting turned into Joni Mitchell’s song:
They paved paradise, and put up a parking lot. 
Don’t it always seem to go
that you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone,
they paved paradise, and put up a parking lot.

They cut down the trees and put them in a tree museum
And all the people paid a dollar to see’em.
Don’t it always seem to go,
that you don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone,
They paved paradise, and put up a parking lot.

Wow, that woke me up at 3:47 a.m. on Monday morning.  The mystics used to awaken in these Days of Awe at 3 a.m. to meditate… so I guess I am part of a strong tradition.

Have we paved over entrance to “Paradise,”   the way in to the ultimate connection with our Creator, with a parking lot, a static place of leaving our cars when we aren’t there? Through our Torah portion we proclaim that we are all connected and are continuing to receive Torah, instruction, in constant relationship through the generations.

And yet… do we really listen to this or do we pave over and block out the message so that when the life-giving rain falls, it runs off and is lost?
Every time we say a blessing to do a mitzvah, such as studying Torah, we are connecting with holiness. That is how I translate the blessing formula: Baruch Ata Adonai, Eloheynu Melech Ha-olam, asher kidishanu b’mitzvotav, v’tzivanu…. And then whatever follows, lighting candles, studying Torah, etc…
“Holy One of Blessing, Your presence fills creation; you have given us the opportunity to connect with holiness through the mitzvah of….”

This past Sunday in our religious school, Diane Schoen, School Director and teacher, was telling the students the story of the prophet Jonah (which we will hear this afternoon, with commentary by Karyl Goldsmith).  The older children offered their idea of what a prophet is…
One who has sacred visions, and tells the rest of the people what God’s message for them is; who points out what the results will be if they continue to live their lives the way they are going now.

One of the younger children (Lola, Gail’s granddaughter) turned to me and asked, “Rabbi, are YOU a prophet?”

Well, that took me aback for a moment… and I replied, “I think part of my job is to be like a prophet.”

Out of the mouths of babes.

But Moses said, “Would that all my people were prophets!”  Let’s all open our minds and hearts to the messages this day and not pave them over.  Be guided by your own Inner Prophet as well as by the prophets of our tradition.
The words we hear today are part of Moses’ song to our people… this is truly “Our song” that we are playing today.


May we be written and sealed in the Book of Life and continue to sing our 'song of connectedness" together.

Connection - Theme for Rabbi's Words on Rosh Hashanah 5775 (2014)

Theme for Rabbi’s Drashot High Holy Days 5775   2014

Rabbi Alicia Magal
Jewish Community of Sedona and the Verde Valley
New Year 5775  September 24-25, 2014
My Words on Connection -   Kesher
           
Overview: CONNECTION with oneself, family, circle of community, Israel, the world, God, Shema Israel.     – knots, loops, knitting, unraveling. Connection with soul.

Erev Rosh Hashanah -  Wednesday night, September 24, 2014

My theme for these High Holy days is Connection – in Hebrew, the word is KESHER, which can also mean something that is tied, or a knot. 

Ilaine Packman loaned me a fascinating book on sailing and showed me a display of different knots used for securing sails, mooring a boat to a dock, and many other uses.  Each kind of knot has a specific purpose, a slip knot needs to allow for movement and adjustment;  a slippery reef knot is good for furling a sail, clove hitch is used to tie a line to a piling, bowline is easy and never slips or jams, sheet bend is an excellent way to tie two lines of different sizes or textures together, etc. …so many types of knots for each type of use.

There are other examples of useful tying-together of strings, ropes, fibers, or wool. This year for the very first time I am learning to knit.  Many of you know that our daughter Tali is pregnant.  I suddenly felt so connected to her in a new way, to the continuity of generations. 

I wanted to knit a blanket.. Actually I need to knit TWO blankets. 
What is knitting?  It is connecting one kind of loop to another small piece of wool; over and over and over again.  One loop connecting to another until you can see a whole piece of fabric emerge.  

Rabbi Alicia knitting a baby blanket
Yona showed me how to knit the way my mother did, the European way… a connection with my mother… with how I remember her knitting when I was a child.  Since I am a beginner, I made mistakes. Lisa showed me how to fix a small mistake like losing a few stitches, and Denise showed me that I had made a large error: I had put down the knitting, and when I picked it up again I went in the wrong direction; I didn’t see the signs and kept going for 7 or 8 more rows.  She told me that I would have to rip out all those rows and do them over.  But I really learned from that.

Despite the global instant connections you make through the internet, really most interactions and connections are like those knitted loops, one tiny word, one short call, one brief visit after another, until there is the whole fabric, a useful blanket, sweater, hat, or gift…the whole history of  a relationship.

This is like Teshuvah.  We can make a small mistake or let slip a word that can be repaired if we catch it quickly and make amends.  But sometimes we take a completely wrong direction and don’t realize it… and then it is a much bigger deal to repair. We might have to spend more time, effort, concentration, focus, and tears to dig out, rip out, talk out, the damage, and it can take some time and effort to build up again those rows, that friendship, that trust again.

We have come to services tonight, and if possible for the whole arc of the High Holy days from Rosh Hashanah to Yom Kippur, and then Sukkot afterwards as well.  At each one of these services, a particular prayer may suddenly take on new meaning and bring to light a teaching, a healing that you need right then. 


Maybe after saying “Ashamnu, Bagadnu… We have sinned, we have betrayed…” you may suddenly have the awareness that you dropped a few “stitches” or perhaps that you made a whole wrong direction and need to rip out several rows.  After hearing Avinu Malkeinu, Our Parent, our Ruler, you may feel that you wish to reconnect with God, or however you imagine your Highest Guidance.  After hearing the blasts of the shofar, you may feel your emotions stirred and reconnected with your essential soul.  And then you will feel strong, empowered, humble enough to make a tough call or make an apology that will bring you back to the state of wholeness, of shalom, of peace, so you can continue in a good and positive direction. Hopefully you will find it in your heart to offer forgiveness to those who have hurt you, so you do not have to carry the burden of that hurt and anger any longer.
These prayers shouldn’t stay on the printed page, or even in this Sanctuary. They are meant to penetrate our hearts and minds and remain with us when we leave.

If your knots are made correctly, your boat will stay safely moored when needed, and when you are ready, the sails will unfurl when the wind is right, and you will sail forward smoothly and safely.

Check your knots, check your stitches.  Do you have the right ones for the right job?  Do you need help in recognizing where the knots might be getting loose, or the stitches are not adding up to a straight row?

During Elul and right now during these Days of Awe, we each have the opportunity to check all those areas of connections.  The prayers offer a technology of connection –
How are we connecting with our own soul?  How are we connecting with our family and friends and co-workers? How are we connecting with the wider circle of Jews in the world, with Israel, and with humanity?  How are we connecting with nature and the environment?  How are we connecting with God, the Giver of life?

Through these days, I invite you to consider the prayers, the blessings, the songs, the opening of the Ark, the reading from the Torah, the bibliodrama making the prophetic words of Jeremiah on Day Two of Rosh Hashanah come alive…. All of these point the way to connect more closely, more fully, with the relationships that make up our lives.

RH DAY ONE September 25, 3014
 Connection with mishpacha, sometimes chosen, like congregation. Inevitable friction. Repairs, digging out the reason why the tiles were settling next to the building.  THEN placing tiles over the space. smoothing over. Rebirth.

My theme for these High Holy Days is KESHER – Connection. There are so many ways we are tied, linked, connected. This morning, when we read about the very beginning of creation, and the earliest families, I want to focus on our connections with family and close friends.  
       Last night I shared how I have been learning to knit, and because I started in the middle of a row to knit in the wrong direction, I had to rip out many rows.  Sometimes, as we add stitch upon stitch, row upon row of connections we make mistakes, or other people do, and the result has holes, uneven rows, or remains unfinished.
I have heard many stories of people who just felt they didn’t belong in the family into which they were born, and rather than continue the pain of disconnect with their birth family, chose friends to be their family.  That is one of the joys of membership in synagogue: connections with a larger Mishpacha, family.  From elders, to young people, partnered, and single, young children … we have here a beautiful connection that can fill those missing parts.  I never had grandparents, so I adopted other people’s grandparents. 
Those of us who are far from our family members can turn for socialization and celebration and help to other members.  We say as a whole community, Ashamnu, Bagadnu… not to hide, but to take responsibility for our own shortcomings in a safe embrace of community.  We hear “Who shall live, and who shall die…”  and we feel connected to all those who are ill and in need of a visit, or support, or hope through the life stages we are all going through.  We realize the preciousness of each moment of connection since, indeed, who knows when someone we just saw will not be there tomorrow?  The last words we always say should be loving and positive.

Our connections with others might be brief or of long standing, casual or intense, a thin thread or a solid heavy rope, but all those moments of contact have meaning and an impact.  Here, now, in the month of Tishrei, the beginning of the year, is where we gain strength to say what is in our hearts.  If you move around the Hebrew letters of Tishrei, you get Reishit, ‘beginning”, and that word comes from the root Rosh, Head, just as in Rosh Hashanah, the head of the year. This month, the head of the year, is like the Rosh, head of the body, that controls the functions, senses, and movement of the body.  So, our behavior every day throughout this month of Tishrei affects our lives during the days of the following year.

During the High Holy Days, the Gates of Repentance are Open, and it is a perfect time to review and consider our connection with our family and friends over the past year, to write in our Book of Living Fully that I have printed out, what we have achieved, where we have fallen short, and how we hope to strengthen those vital connections in the coming year. (Show “Book of Life,” and encourage them to fill theirs out. Show how I broke the seal and opened mine from last year, and filled out a new one for 5775).

This is the Birthday of humanity in the world.  It is a time for each of us to “rebirth” ourselves, to wake up those places in us that have become asleep, deadened, unaware.  The blasts of the shofar literally are a wake-up call, an alarm, a sobbing, and finally, a note of wholeness and repair.  A connection of sound between us and each other; between us and God. 


I wish you a sweet, healthy, and transforming New Year. May the sweetness of our honey and apples and round challah give us reserve strength to overcome challenges, and keep reconnecting.